my ex, the mental one, keeps asking me to dj with him (he is quite a good DJ). While at first I kept saying no, I am wondering on whether to do it. He dumped me in the most unceremonious of ways and was quite an arsehole but that was over a year ago and I'm completely over him... there is no way I'd go back (never go back)...
But I'm tempted. I love djing and I will probably get some cash from him for it. And I'll be able to play the music I want to play without being told to 'lighten it up'...
Should I? Would you? Am I mad? Is it a bad idea? Probably...
give it a go
yeah
you wouldn'`t be obliged to do it more than once if it went badly would you?
if you don't stop posting in 165 posts
it's a good idea !
:D
yeah, do it
Go
talk to him n be a team n what not but on the condition that u can leave early n try not to spend too much time alone. In the middle of a club is fine.
Then see what happens n if enjoyed it, continue
PS. Dont qut
Id say go for it
perhaps its his way of trying to make amends?
yeah - he's being super nice right now.
I think he has cleaned his act up a lot...
Hmmm. I think I will - I haven't seen him for over a year.
And if he's an arsehole, I can always literally pull the plug on the decks mid set ;-)
NOOOOOO!
don't be silly! Its just an excuse to spend some time with you and try and get back in. Hi btw and thks for the drink ages ago if you remember me! My cold get better. How's you?
This is embarassing but did I buy you a drink?
Where was it? I can't remember just now.. am sure I will when you tell me.
...no you didn't buy me one!
You were better - you gave me yours - coz I had a hacking cough and it was at that thing called Zonino way back in Jan (or Feb). Ring any bells?
I gave you a drink of mine? how much of a tight arse is that??!!
Well, if it was to help with your cough, then that's nice of me I guess. And yes, I do remember meeting you that night.
x
...it was a very crowded bar
and I was coughing loads so muchy appreciated! See you again one day and keep away the exes - they are bad news
:)
No.
Don't do it. I have no basis or logic behind it but I just don't like the sound of it and it gives me a bad feeling.
Plus, you can damn well make a good thing of your dj'ing without him.
I think it will be ok. We have just had a 5 hour chat
on msn which was really nice, and he's given me heaps of new music I like.. I can handle him. He was always a bit scared of my 'evil look' which I only pull out when necessary.
This week has been all about running into exes. How odd. Three in one week.
And as per Gunner's note below, I can always steal half of his vinyl.
Night all.
xx
did i meet you on new year's eve?
do it
and buy him drinks all evening so he won't notice when you steal a chunk of his vinyl collection.
i'd say no
like you said he's mental. what's to say he won't go loopy on you again?
and if he really was such a bastard to you before why the hell do you want to spend any time with him at all or help him out (which is what you'd be doing)?
^^^
i don't understand why you're even in touch with him
Ann, Vikram...
He reckons he has cleaned up his act and hasn't been partying since September last year. I am giving the benefit of the doubt here - perhaps foolishly. And also, I have turned down offers to see him regularly on a six week cycle for the last 1.5 years so intrigue and curiosity say it's time. I did once spend every waking day and minute with this person once upon a time.
Intrigue, it may be fun, and if he 'turns' I will completely close the door forever (simple). I don't want to get back with the guy (Lord no!) but yeah - I guess I'm a member of Team Nice.
If anyone wants to come, Thursday night in Islington it is! I may live to regret this but at least I'll use my final posts on Nathan Barley - which is how I found DiS anyhow, ironically.
Thanks for the advice, y'all.
x
okay, well, watch yoself hon
people do reform, but not always deep down... and curiosity is a fine thing but nostalgia not so much.
and dont forget tos ave a few psots for the nathan debriefing!