Don't do it.

you get a tongue bar and ram that through, then you buy stretchers like 3mm, 5mm, 8mm, 10mm until you reach the size of your choice and put a nice plug or tunnel in that you like.
two tips:
1. don't move up too quickly. let it heal each time before moving up a size.
2. make your earlobe wet before putting in the next stretcher
3. whack the whole thing in at once. if you leave it half way through it swells up after 10 minutes and then you'll take ages over it. best to just bang it in
4. i was told not to go over a 10mm if i wanted it to close again, so i only went to 8 but its not closing. but thats ok.

the end. :)

poor effort with the grammar :(

http://www.bigtimetattoo.com/wordpress/wp-content/photos/o18_1.jpg

it's just wrong.

I advise you no no no no noooooooooooooooooo don't get it done! Tragus can be for males or females, and mine looked amazing. But it hurt more than when I had my wotsit done and my tattoos (both in sensitive places). It's not worth it, for such a small piercing it fucking hurts and is a pain in the ars