it was my girlfriends birthday yesterday. to celebrate we went to nagnagnag (i've just got back), we were having a fun time. i went to the toilets but they were being cleaned so i got sent back and caught my gf kissing a guy we both know and who i trusted. i comfronted her and she seemed to reluctently accept it to be the truth. i got a cab home with my gf as i was scared she'd get hurt on her own. im now in my room on my own thinking...what should i do?
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there are some slightly more bizare dilllllllemas
If a killer put a knife to my throat, and said, "Have sex with your father or else I'm gonna kill your mother while having sex with you," …I would have sex with myself.
fuck me, i've just realised
that i am a less witty and less attractive version of chandler. i'm going to go jump off a bridge
and again, this 2nd post confirms it
you well are
I dunno.
If he'd phrased it "Could I *BE* a less witty and less attractive version of Chandler?" he might have a point.
Is a scene that
?
Is this a scene that's going to be in the next Saw?
?
i would like to try and help with real advice
but im sooooo fuckin tired that
kill her
kill him
kill yourself
will have to suffice
not bizarre at all
i'd personally just go down the 'split up with her' route because she can't be trusted, even with your friends
Pretty much what I'd do
but things aren't always so black and white
you're girlfriend gets off with your mate when you're in the club
what's not black and white about that?
she's no good (and neither is he)
People fuck up
Besides, I agree with you
people make mistakes, very true
but i just think cheating is a symptom of some real problems. i always feel the truth comes out when people are drinking and if something like that goes down i think i would just throw the whole thing in the can.
interesting!
whatwhatwhat?!!?
Ah, this is where we differ then
I've always thought 'in vino veritas' is a pile of bullshit. Although sometimes a lack of inhibitions makes the truth come out, it is just as often the case that all mental faculties go out the window and things that otherwise never would have happened do.
But in this case, it sounds pretty suspect. I'd leave her.
Bad luck phil_t
I need to have trust at the centre of my close relationships, so i would find it extremely difficult to trust people who treated me like this again. But that's just me. Good luck.
nagnagnag at The Ghetto
I used to work there.
Have a serious word
with your girlfriend with the view to dumping her (depending on her answers) and have a serious word with the bloke with the view to dumping him in the woods.
IT'S BIZARRO WORLD
BIZARRO?
BIZARRO.
PIZARRO
must score
obviously it depends on how you feel about it
and how she explains herself. but if it was me, i couldn't be with someone who had cheated on me. and even if she says "oh i was drunk, it was just a joke" etc. etc. i'd be wary because i think that's an extremely disrespectful thing to do.
'Disrepectful'
Are you in the Mafia?
This thing of ours
yes
i am.
Step 1: Learn the definition of bizarre
Step 2: Make up something about a girl at a bus stop instead, its infinitely more compelling
she sounds like a
bitch slut
punch
her.
you what?
she'd started snogging someone else in the time it took you to go to the toilets, not even take a piss, and come back? Jeez, she sounds lovely...
Have a serious think about whether a girl like that is worth your time.
An excellent point
they must have been actually WAITING for you to leave the room - were you with her all night? It doesn't sound like this was the first time they'd kissed.
shag her Mom
cut her hair off...
when she's asleep. and then dump her.
HA!
evil :D
borrow £50 off her and then dump her
get her pregnant, and then dump her
Dump her and your mate.
Seriously they must have been at it as soon as your back was turned which probably means it was pre planned, either by him or her, and it's not like the other stopped it.
get her pregnant, then take a dump on her
yeah!
the slag!!
Lolzz
TIME FOR SOME STORIES
(stolen from http://www.thetriforce.com/newblog/?p=1142)
SO I'M ON THE BUS FOR SOME GODDAMNED REASON AND I AM LISTENING CAREFULLY TO THE CONVERSATION IN FRONT OF ME, HELD BETWEEN THIS BLOWSY SULKY GIRL WHO IS CLEARLY DOMINATING THE SITUATION AND HER 'BOYFRIEND', A SCRAWNY LOOKING MESS NEAR TEARS. THE FOLLOWING IS ALMOST VERBATIM.
SCRAWNY MESS: WHAT DO YOU MEAN YOU'VE CHEATED ON ME?!
BLOWSY GIRL: I CHEATED ON YOU.
SCRAWNY MESS: (SNIFFLING MISERABLY) BUT.. BUT.. YOU CHEATED ON ME?
BLOWSY GIRL: (ALMOST INDIGNANTLY) YES.
SCRAWNY MESS: (TEARS FORMING) FOR HOW LONG?
BLOWSY GIRL: (WITH A HINT OF SATISFACTION) ABOUT A YEAR.
SCRAWNY MESS: (TEARS WELLING UP) OHHHHH NOOOO.
SCRAWNY MESS PAUSES TO REFLECT. THE BOY IS A VERITABLE DISTILLERY AT THIS POINT AND YOU CAN JUST TELL SOME SORT OF ULTIMATUM IS COMING. HE MASTERS HIS EMOTIONS AND BECOMES VERY STILL. I AM EXPECTING HIM TO GET ALL KUNG FU ON THIS GIRL. INSTEAD HE TURNS TO HER, WIPES THE TEARS FROM HIS EYES AND SAYS "STRIKE ONE, NANCY... STRIKE ONE."
hahah
what a wet wipe
I wish I'd bothered to get that growapair account
no trust
its your mate! You can't trust her now. Seems pretty obvious that somethings been happening with them before....
where did you end up going
to the toilet?
:D
hopefully
on your mates shoes
Get instructions on how to deal with this situation from the Shellac song 'Prayer to God'
It will tell you all you need to know about how to deal.
haha shellac...
seriously though, dont be in denial about it they must've waited until you went to the toilet and must've known exactly what they were doing irrespective of the amount of booze they had.
confront with a serious view of dumping her, it all sounds abit calculated to me!
erm...good luck
get rid
end of
hard truth
you are both young, this is most probably going to happen again... I think you should just finish with her and then you can show her that this is not the thing to do and help her future bfs and her too..
I will happen again. :(
I am just thinking back to when I was 17, if she is doing that at a place and you are there with her.. well.. sorry.
Ditch the friend too!
Seriously you will respect yourself more aswell and your future relationships will be better knowing you are not to be messed with and you wont worry, rather than questioning and interagating someone that has been messing about in the past.. and then gfs of the future :(
...Hmmm I think maybe I am too knowledgeable on this subject..... Doh!
I
concur wholeheartedly.
not nice
Don't call the girl, wait to see if she calls you. Then decide where you go next.
Fuck the guy right off, he is no friend of yours.
I had friends who saw some pretty girls, but I would never cross the line, even after they'd split up. I think its an unwritten rule of friendship. For your friend to do that in front of your face is the lowest of the low.
Well done for not snapping, you've shown restraint that must've been tough to do in that circumstance.
wow
that's slaggy.