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by yves_adele_harlow

I was talking to this guy from work who I find rather attractive last night. He grew up here in Berlin, in the East and I asked him what it was like being an East Berliner. He said "I don't really know, I was only 1 when the wall came down..." so through my powers of deduction I have worked out that he must only be about 19. There was definitely something going on between us but it's making me feel a bit paedo-ish to think about doing anything about it seeing as I'm 22.

Is this silly or is a 19 year old boy really too young for a 22 year old girl?

yves_adele_harlow | 26 Mar '08, 09:52 | Send note | Report this | Reply

silly.

next.


^ this


^ This

And as an East Berliner, he won't put up with such nonsense


^ this

totally.


^this

don't worry about it!


as the rule states

half your age plus 7. That means your lowest age threshold is 18 thus it is ok.


If you were in Yr 11

he'd be in Yr 8 at school. That'd be wrong. As you're both fully fledged adults you should probably shag him.


Is that rule?

So many shags un shagged


Less a rule

more of a guidline.


I'm 25

my lover is 20, get over it


I'm 25

And mine's 19! I win! Or do I? I don't know!


please stop saying lover

you're not Lady Chatterley


He's Lady Shatterley

HOHOHO


Scatterley*

Bee Ba Da Baddo Bop Ba Dabba Badda Bop


There is 12 years between me and woman.

Stop being silly.
You did mean 19 and not 9 didnt you?


*me and my woman

.


i'm not a lady of any sort

however i was born in Bristol :P


i like lover

it's better than my 'partner' or my 'baby'
and girlfriend just gets boring


It's not so much the difference,

it's more the fact that 19 seems very young. He's not long out of school and I've already been through University.

I know 3 years isn't much, but I mean, would people find it acceptable for a 20 year old and a 17 year old?


Why not?

3 years is shit all. Dont be so superior.


*25

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i'm not even 25 yet

you retard.


I'm guessing that went really well, right?

Seeing as you love going out with people so much


it was pretty great

for two years, sure.


Nope

Totally depends on the people involved, but 3 years isn't anything! Unless you're still in school.


stop being a twat

and shag him already. jesus christ. three years is absolutely nothing. bloody hell.

in a similar vein, i'm in love with freddie highmore. it was there in Finding Neverland, it was even more present in Charlie & the Chocolate Factory and now those adverts for the Spiderwick Chronicles are all over buses and stuff i just want to touch him. he's 15. is THAT wrong???


Don't worry,

I've just checked. He's 16 now.


is he?

he was born in february 92.. oh my god you're right! so much phew.


Ewww

Wanting to touch someone born in the 1990s!


yeah it's weird isn't it

how's your face?


Recoiled in disgust

How is your wart?


if you basically act the same age it's fine

but i do understand the hesitancy.


three years difference

OMGZ!!!

hahaha


what's everyone's problem here?

of course it's fine for a guy to date girls younger than them, it's always been considered ok, but when you're young, in highschool all the girls want to date older guys and if you dated a guy even one year younger than you then you were considered massively lame. those sort of things carry on in the back of your mind you know..fucking christ.


3 years

I've kind of been in the same situation, I'm 21 and fancied someone who's 18, only a year older than my younger brother which I found kind of disturbing. But it doesn't really matter though, does it.


age smage

I thought the asda delivery man was looking pretty good this morning, he looked about 20...I am 28

on the other end my top dream men are both in thir 50's so...blah


I used to have

strict age limits, but I've erm, stretched those now in both directions.


^ paedo


I hate parsnips

make your own food based 'portion' joke here...


'melons'


'sausage'

'pork'


'pineapples'

'clam'


24.

They'd be the extremes at both ends, admittedly. Generally 19-25, although beggars can't be choosers!


don't think i could date someone

who wasn't allowed in pubs.


I'm 26

and averaging 22.85 over the last year.


I'm 18

my girlfriends 20 not much in it but still two years.


3 years?

what the fuck? that's nothing! are you wasting our time on purpose? and think about who is saying this to you.