my girlfriend of 5 years (we were also engaged)thought it was perfectly fine to dump me over the phone. the reason? " i dont want you any more.2 and that was that. and to pour a ton of salt into the wounds. she clealy doesnt give a shit, no emotion whatsoever.
I mean in a way that's the reason most relationships end (even though people tend to be diplomatic and try and give a softer-sounding reason than that).
And in the long run it's probably better for both you than her staying with you if she wasn't happy. Hopefully in time mrstu'll find someone who appreciates him.
She maybe could have done it better but if she knows it over its better to be harsh, rather than soften it down leaving you hanging on thinking there's a chance in the future.
and i'll share my tales of romantic woe. sounds like we could swap a few.
but as meths rightly points out, she sounds a loser anyway - who dumps someone after five years and an engagement OVER THE PHONE.
Weak willed and a woman without any spine or integrity - honestly, she did you a favour.
I was thinking about making a thread about this today.
My mind did me a favour last night: it has switched my mind off from fancying a girl (given that she's a lost cause and all) by giving me a special dream. In this dream I was happily going out with this girl, when I discovered that she had mouldy boobs with a mass of thick, black, spiderlike hairs growing out of the underboob area. And when I tried to kiss her there was a big, bright pink flowery infection thing on her tongue.
If I could somehow transfer this dream to other people - Total recall style - I would be a very rich man.
Believe me it does get easier in time - although as a quick update my ex told me a week after she'd dumped me that she had started seeing her boss (she had only worked there a month)!!
I asked for my ring back last week - sold it on Saturday for £500 and am now going to New York in August
its very difficult tho, i have on auto pilot since it happened and the most stupid things get me bawling. the other night i made the factual mistake of watching 'eternal sunshine of the spotless mind' again. anyone whos seen this film will know why it was a bad idea to watch it.
There is nothing i can say to make you feel better
But i would advise that you avoid all uneccessary contact.
I have had to speak to my ex every day for the last 7 weeks(due to sorting out our old flatand various other money stuff) and it makes it 100 times worse - especially as she has moved on to another relationship so quick and im stuck on my own!!
I feel your pain but remember she is to blame not you!!! As soon as you accept that it DOES get easier believe me
ok
Neds Atomic Dustbin
have a song about this.
girls...
you cant live with em you cant shoot em
Explain.
Why?
well
my girlfriend of 5 years (we were also engaged)thought it was perfectly fine to dump me over the phone. the reason? " i dont want you any more.2 and that was that. and to pour a ton of salt into the wounds. she clealy doesnt give a shit, no emotion whatsoever.
she sounds like the sort of girl you should def not be engaged to then.
congrats
^
I know where you're coming from.
Wow that's seriously harsh.
No explanation just 'I don't want you anymore'
I hope she gives the ring back!
Harsh though it sounds it's probably honest.
I mean in a way that's the reason most relationships end (even though people tend to be diplomatic and try and give a softer-sounding reason than that).
And in the long run it's probably better for both you than her staying with you if she wasn't happy. Hopefully in time mrstu'll find someone who appreciates him.
^ This
She maybe could have done it better but if she knows it over its better to be harsh, rather than soften it down leaving you hanging on thinking there's a chance in the future.
Sorry though mate.
msmonipenni is excellent at sympathy
in thes matters
Haha I'm not sure if you're being sarcastic.
I hope not.
I really am being sincere.
I wasn't!
You hit me up with some sympathy the other day!
sorry to hear that. come out with me sometime
and i'll share my tales of romantic woe. sounds like we could swap a few.
but as meths rightly points out, she sounds a loser anyway - who dumps someone after five years and an engagement OVER THE PHONE.
Weak willed and a woman without any spine or integrity - honestly, she did you a favour.
x
^^that
she's a complete coward...5 years of a relationship and it ends over the phone? pretty much be grateful for the lucky escape! hope you're ok xx
Gilly?
it really wouldnt
wheres the FUN?!
Sometimes I worry that maybe I was...
not quite
but i do wish i could switch off fancying people.
mmm..
....life'd be so much less stressful
HEY
I was thinking about making a thread about this today.
My mind did me a favour last night: it has switched my mind off from fancying a girl (given that she's a lost cause and all) by giving me a special dream. In this dream I was happily going out with this girl, when I discovered that she had mouldy boobs with a mass of thick, black, spiderlike hairs growing out of the underboob area. And when I tried to kiss her there was a big, bright pink flowery infection thing on her tongue.
If I could somehow transfer this dream to other people - Total recall style - I would be a very rich man.
From this point on
this post will come up whenever someone googles GEORGE PRINGLE
:D
GERORGE PRINGLE'S MOULDERING BOOBS
http://www.camppringle.com/
no it won't
i checked.
You still tried to get jiggy?
That is messed up.
sorry for more sarcastic answer ^^
that really does suck; sorry to hear that. As with anything though, time will heal...it's just being patient which is far easier to say than do.
Hope things are better soon =)
..
thank you all very much for your words, as made me feel slightly better (not much mind, lol!) i appreciate it. x
oh
and as yet ahe hasnt mentioned the ring.
...
thats meant to say she not ahe
mrstu
I went through the same thing recently see this thread;
http://www.drownedinsound.com/articles/3022735
Believe me it does get easier in time - although as a quick update my ex told me a week after she'd dumped me that she had started seeing her boss (she had only worked there a month)!!
I asked for my ring back last week - sold it on Saturday for £500 and am now going to New York in August
Keep your chin up!!
ill try
its very difficult tho, i have on auto pilot since it happened and the most stupid things get me bawling. the other night i made the factual mistake of watching 'eternal sunshine of the spotless mind' again. anyone whos seen this film will know why it was a bad idea to watch it.
Keep your friends around you
There is nothing i can say to make you feel better
But i would advise that you avoid all uneccessary contact.
I have had to speak to my ex every day for the last 7 weeks(due to sorting out our old flatand various other money stuff) and it makes it 100 times worse - especially as she has moved on to another relationship so quick and im stuck on my own!!
I feel your pain but remember she is to blame not you!!! As soon as you accept that it DOES get easier believe me
....
your right mate, thanks.
me too.
had you actually met her in the flesh?
Sorry for the stupid question but you never know with people on here.
we were together 5 years
and engaged for 2 and half of thoose years so yes ive met her in the flesh...
me too
everythings great when you are a kid you just exist, I think thats what it would be like to be asexual
oh the
innocence of youth, god i miss it!
Everyone is born asexual.
duh
Not really
because the whole "I'm gay because I was born this way" argument wouldn't really work then would it.
It has to work?
It doesn't work.
asexual what, by the way?
HAAAAAAAAAaaaaaaaa
thanks
for making my misery your internet joke of the week
I think I'm headed that way..
heres an update for anyone who cares...
....i posted her the last of her stuff this morning. not sure if i put enough stamps on tho....whopps!
Wops?
Racist
*coughs*
i meant whoops
Is this thread still about
MAN (or asexual man-woman hybred).