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i dont think im ever gonna get invloved in a relationship again

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by mrstu

its the only sure fire way of staying sane...i think.

mrstu | 05 May '08, 14:15 | Send note | Report this | Reply

If staying out of relationships

means you're sane, then I would be the sanest person I know, and that's far from the truth, so you are mistaken.

Sorry.


^The whole of this is my answer.

Every word. Sorry for stealing.


s'ok


what i mean

my last relationship ended after nearly five years. she finished it over the phone (we were also engaged btw) because and i quote "i dont want you any more!" i dont know if i can be with someone for so long only to get hurt again.


oh right

i think you've posted about this before, right?

I'm sorry man, not much I can say really, but I hope it gets better soon and all :(


yes....

ive bored many people with my tales of woe


don't worry

we've all done it (except i've never had very interesting stories, yours is quite dramatic at least)

How long has it been?


Oh, I remember this now.

You started a thread about it didn't you?

That's terrible but you can't let her ruin the possiblilty of you being able to love again. I can't imagine how you're feeling right now, I wish you well.


thanks

im fine one minute and feel like throwing myself under a bridge the next. its been 4 weeks tomorrow since it ended and im still just as confused as i was then.


I split up over Xmas

and that was a relationship which lasted 6 years. Mortgage, solicitors etc its not good. Its been 14 weeks since any contact so it gets better. I do think sometimes id like to scratch the side of her car but thats silly.
Feel for you I really do


the best/worst piece of advice ive had is

"sleep with her sister!" thing is shes a twin.

i honestly never thought id ever have to go through these feelings and emothions again, how wrong i was


Get a labrador......

they're bouncy, fun, attractive, love the outdoors, enjoy food without getting in a spazz over diets/their weight and women love them so you'll end up hooking up with
hound friendly hotties whenever you go for a walk with your four legged friend.


Labradors

like women. Expensive


...

yeah but they smell lovely first thing in a morning.....women i mean not ladradors


arrrrhhh!

time is a great healer as they say.... i am very similarly afflicted with the never again line. 15 year relationship, 2 kids and house. and she says she doesnt want to be with me any more.

that was about 6 months ago and i am more or less over the emotional side, the rest (ie finance) is nowhere near complete and we still live together! something that i could do well with getting sorted asap.... as its cooking my head.

i am sure.... you will get over this although i remember it being very difficult but not impossible.

chin up!


it....

..certainly ain“t funny!

it was supposed to be amicable, where by i accept her decision and we work towards making sure the kids are catered for in the future.

however... her level of amicability is a loooooong way below my understanding of it, culminating in a bizarre and rather sad evening whereby she spitefully scribbled thru my radiohead in amsterdam days off on the calander and we had a massive barney and i threw the calendar at her and she called the police whom rather joylessly escorted me from my own house! my protestations of - you cant arrest me, i have a football match to ref in the morning!! must have worked as they dropped me off a friends....

am searching for how i am ever going to have a relationship with another lady, although i have more lady friends then bloke friends, am also finding the whole idea of dating again extraordinarially scary!


ok i'm with you guys

i'm staying single.


AMEN Bruvva

AMEN


You have good days and bad days sure...

But it seriously will get better. I had the same thing after my ex and I broke up. It killed me every time thought about him, to the point I felt physically sick and I just wanted that pit of your stomach feeling to go away. Thankfully it did and I feel like my old self again. It's scary how a relationship can hurt you so much that you lose yourself.

I hope you're ok though.


true

its so scarey.


That's a very good plan

whoring FTW!!11!