We often talk about pervy guys (hi!) sending unsollicited PMs to unsuspecting female DiSers and I guess thhis is generally frowned upon. But what if we read someone's posts and think, "this person is pretty cool" and click on their profile and think, "this person is pretty hot actually" and maybe we develop a little crush.
What is the ettiquette? A PM or ignore such feelings or further causes of action I presently cannot imagine?
i have never had a pervy pm.
do i win this thread?
o rly?
NOT ANY MORE.
You can thank me later.
;)
am i supposed to post it
so that everyone can see? or like start a thread or something?
Ermm...
I hadn't thought it through that much. How about we just skip this internet bs and meet in Leeds for drinks?
stalk them for months
then make a thread where you let all the DiSers guess who it is
^ knows
HELL YEAH
Meet
Impose yourself. I was thinking the other day though, arranging a meeting with someone off the internet is about as difficult as asking a friend for sex, so it's kind of appropriate.
PM oot the face
You realise that
everyone's had a phase of fancying klaire. It will pass. Don't act upon it.
^ brilliant advice
could have done with it circa november 2006
Please don't say you've slept with Claire
I don't think I could deal with the retrospective betrayal.
you make it sound like you own her.
I DO OWN HER, LAUREN
sorry, did i touch a nerve?
Yeah
Claire + me = massive heartbreak
i'm sorry,i didn't know you had history.
Oh, we have history alright
Hi-sto-RY
Yeah
We don't have any history
i figured
:(
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rad
</3
(I lie)
Then it's the lie which hurts
It sure did.
:''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''(
he hasn't slept with me!
no-one slept with me!
stop talking about me like i'm not here!
when does this normally kick in?
:S
DON'T. DO. ANYTHING.
^ This
stop ruining potentially horrific lulz
Well...
you´ve apparently gotten PRETTY far already without needing this advice...
not really.
probably make a thread like this?
by the way, plz dont be being serious
I have me a girlfriend
who is pretty spesch. I was just thinking that if one person liked a DiSer they'd always be criticized for whatever action they took to 'get in' there.
There should be set rules of engagement.
^pretty autistic sounding
Which which which which which which which?
Which?
STILL
trying to come on to people on the internet
is baaaaaad
Arranging to meet them is also pretty
baaaaaad. Or at least, in my experience, incredibly awkward.
don't do either
I dunno
at least I got a tour of her city´s centre. And an overpriced meal.
But the most overpriced meal of all
only involved the digestion of our chances for long-distance happiness together. :(
that's not happy :(
Well maybe not
but I didn´t really have anything else going on in my life at the time, it seemed like the right way to go.
This is my point
What do you do if you find yourself attracted to someone on DiS? Coming on to them is bad/sad etc. But its pretty sad not to act on your feelings.
it's sadder to be an internet mental
Liking someone from DiS makes you a mental?
I can think of a couple of very happy and lovely DiS couples. Are they mentals?
did they meet on the internet?
yeah
mental
i met my boyfriend on a myspace
leeds uni forum.
then you met him at leeds uni right??
right???
you can't really 'meet' online.
But you can meet up with people after you've made it clear you're strongly attracted to them.
Its been done. I can think of around three DiS couples still together today.
you're bending my head by making it sound alright
The only reason it wouldn't be 'alright'
is if you place too much consideration onto the judgments made by people who have no experienced that situation.
If two people wanna be together then who cares how they met?
i think it'd odd when people don't meet in person
but the internet?? the internet is a creepy place
i first became aware of several of my previous girlfriends
through myspace.
i don't get the hang-up about it. you talk to someone you like, then you arrange to see them proper, then you like them even more and then you start going out.
easy.
filth laden pms
you know this surely.
not with whiterussian
I've found etc.
no chance then?
: )
it was a joke
youre never going to get sexy internet profit
with that attitude.
STOP OVERLOADING ME GIRLS
I CANT DEAL WITH ALL THIS MAIL
lock it up deep inside yourself
and never let anyone know, because then they'll have the power forever and you'll be laughed off DiS. Allow it to form into an ulcer/cyst, and then die of complications relating to it
or just become friendly with them and tell all, whatevz
go to a DiS meat
and show her your meat
^ Pleased to meet you with the meat to please you
<3
i can't wait 'til i go to a DiS meat
you
and everyone else, should go to the next zonino. 'cause i am :)
:D
see you there
put a donk on it?
^
LEAVE THEM ALONE, JAMES.
Do I know you?
you wish you did.
(cos my names is james)
how do you know that stuff?
these internet stalkers, eh?
i know you're 22 and from london. WOOOOO
and that i'm HAWT!
it's your mother.
: \
My mum is in her office right now. This post frightens me greatly.
so it should do.
why are you in bed?
AREN'T, AREN'T
I am actually in bed.
You could have creeped me out so much just then.
i am pretty scary to be fair
sorry i'm not your mother.
This exhange is amusing me so much right now
my mum is scarier
nah
i'm terrifying. ASK DEATH.
^^^One of the most frightening people I´ve ever met
Could slay you with a glance.
I wish I did
^ what to do when you fancy someone on DiS
become increasingly creepy?